IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE S*X..

* IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE S*

X.. 

Have you noticed that there are times 2 people will be in a good relationship and the very moment they have sex, boom they begin to lose interest in each other.. Like, after that sex, the relationship begins grow cold.. Have you seen such a thing before??? 

And again, on the other hand, have you also noticed that there are other people who has been dating, but immediately they have sex, the love between them becomes much more stronger... Have you wondered why it is so? Why is it that the same sex that killed the first relationship makes the other relationship stronger? Why!! 

Okay. Now relax, let's find out...  

Remember I once told you that LOVE has 3 ascending stages or levels. When a guy sees a beautiful lady on the road and whistles at her to woo her, that mere physical attraction the guy saw in the lady that pushed him to make a move to approach her,  is the PRIMARY stage or first level of love. This primary stage involves infatuations, fantasies, lust, imaginations etc. It's a stage of love because, most times for love to even happen between two people, something has to attract. (At this stage of love, if that guy in any way have sex with that lady, that burning desire will fade or reduce drastically; why? because ofcourse the apple has been eaten while no single strong love was built). 

Then, the moment they have exchanged numbers and start to communicate frequently, as time goes on, the love gradually creeps into the second stage or level.. SECONDARY. 

This secondary stage is when the love has gone deeper from flesh into the Heart/spirit. This is when they start having real feelings for each other. (This stage, if sex happens, the chances of the relationship to either be stronger or grow weaker, is 50 50). 

 Then, as constant communication is still going on, gradually with time, the love will finally cross to the 3rd and final stage. At this very point in stage, the two souls must have connected.