𝟓𝟎 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆𝐒 𝐀 𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐃 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐋𝐃 𝐍𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑 𝐃𝐎.

𝟓𝟎 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆𝐒 𝐀 𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐃 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐋𝐃 𝐍𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑 𝐃𝐎.

Without mincing words, marriage takes its toll on women more than men. Women are usually the ones more readily available to look after the running of the home, more than the husbands, who are usually on the field trying to fend for the family. 

However, some ungodly trends have crept into marriages and we must nip them in the bud before they crumble this beautiful institution. 

Below are things that married women must desist from if they want to have Godly and Healthy Marriages. 

1. STOP DISRESPECTING YOUR HUSBAND! HE IS YOUR EARTHLY GOD!

2. STOP COMPARING YOUR HUSBAND WITH OTHER MEN OUT THERE! YOUR HUSBAND IS UNIQUE.

3. STOP ALLOWING CHORES TO HINDER YOUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD!

4. STOP NEGLECTING THE NEED TO HAVE OPEN AND HONEST COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR HUSBAND!

5. STOP ALLOWING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR HUSBAND TO SUFFER!

6. STOP CURSING YOUR HUSBAND!

7. STOP CHEATING ON YOUR HUSBANDS! YOU'RE NOT A PUBLIC WI-FI THAT EVERYONE CAN ACCESS. 

8. STOP CONTROLLING YOUR HUSBAND! HE'S NOT A TV.

9. STOP CRITICIZING YOUR HUSBAND IN THE PUBLIC!

10. STOP PRIORITIZING YOUR CHILDREN ABOVE YOUR HUSBAND ALL THE TIME!

11. STOP DRAGGING YOUR HUSBAND'S NAME IN THE MUD BY CONSTITUTING A NUISANCE ON YOUR STREET OR IN YOUR COMPOUND!

12. STOP SPEAKING EVIL OF YOUR HUSBAND BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN! YOU'RE SOWING A DANGEROUS SEED BY SO DOING.

13. STOP CONDEMNING YOUR HUSBAND BEFORE YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS!

14. STOP DISCUSSING YOUR S'EX LIFE WITH YOUR FRIENDS! 

15. STOP STARVING YOUR HUSBAND SEXUALLY!

16. STOP USING SEX AS A TOOL TO PUNISH OR CONTROL YOUR HUSBAND!

17. STOP SHYING AWAY FROM CONFLICT RESOLUTION MEETINGS, TRAININGS, AND PROGRAMS!

18. STOP MAKING MAJOR FINANCIAL DECISIONS WITHOUT INFORMING YOUR HUSBAND!

19. STOP IGNORING YOUR LOOKS! TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF AND LOOK GOOD ALWAYS. NEVER BE CAUGHT LOOKING UNFRESH. SMELL NICE, WEAR NEAT CLOTHES, AND MAKE SURE YOUR HAIR IS NEATLY MADE OR PACKED.

20. STOP OVERTHINKING ISSUES IN YOUR MARRIAGE! INSTEAD, INVEST IN PRAYERS AND SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP WHERE NECESSARY.

21. STOP OVERWORKING YOURSELF! NO ONE CAN FINISH HOUSE CHORES IN ONE DAY. DO WHAT YOU CAN DO AND REST!

22. STOP BEING SELFISH! ALWAYS CONSIDER YOUR SPOUSE IN YOUR DECISIONS.

23. STOP IGNORING YOUR NEEDS AND DESIRES IN THE MARRIAGE! REMEMBER, YOU MATTER!

24. STOP LYING LIKE A LOG OF WOOD DURING SEX! BE ACTIVE AND BRING YOUR A-GAME TO THE BEDROOM!

25. STOP WAITING FOR YOUR HUSBAND ALONE TO INITIATE LOVEMAKING ALWAYS! SEDUCE HIM AND TELL HIM YOU WANT TO MAKE LOVE!

26. STOP PUTTING YOUR CAREER ABOVE YOUR MARRIAGE! YOUR HOME IS VERY IMPORTANT!

27. STOP KEEPING SECRETS FROM YOUR HUSBAND! BE TRANSPARENT! 

28. STOP LYING OR WITHHOLDING IMPORTANT INFORMATION FROM YOUR HUSBAND! 

29. STOP TAKING YOUR HUSBAND FOR GRANTED! 

30. STOP GIVING UP ON YOUR MARRIAGE EASILY! GOD CAN FIX THE CHALLENGES AND MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE WORK IF YOU ARE WILLING TO ALLOW HIM. 

31. STOP IGNORING YOUR HUSBAND'S NEEDS AND DESIRES! BE SENSITIVE TO HIS NEEDS!

32. STOP HOLDING GRUDGES AGAINST YOUR HUSBAND!

33. STOP BEING RESENTFUL TOWARDS YOUR HUSBAND! THIS WILL KILL THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR HIM.

34. STOP ALLOWING THIRD-PARTY INTERFERENCE TO DISRUPT THE PEACE IN YOUR HOME!

35. STOP JUDGING YOUR HUSBAND BASED ON HEARSAY! GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT!

36. STOP BEING UNTEACHABLE! MEN LOVE WOMEN WHO HAVE TEACHABLE SPIRITS!

37. STOP BEING 'MRS RIGHT' ALL THE TIME! LEARN TO ACCEPT CORRECTIONS WHEN AND WHERE NECESSARY.

38. STOP BEING UNFORGIVING! FORGIVENESS FREES THE OFFENDED AS MUCH AS THE OFFENDER.

39. STOP ALLOWING YOUR ANGER TO LINGER FOR TOO LONG! BE ANGRY AND SIN NOT. 

40. STOP BEING AN INGRATE! APPRECIATE YOUR HUSBAND FOR ALL HIS EFFORTS TOWARD THE SMOOTH RUNNING OF THE FAMILY.

41. STOP WITHHOLDING AFFECTION FOR YOUR HUSBAND!

42. STOP LEAVING ALL THE FINANCIAL BURDENS FOR YOUR HUSBAND ALONE! ASSIST HIM WHEN YOU CAN. THAT'S WHY YOU ARE HIS HELPMEET. 

43. STOP WATCHING PO'RNOGRAPHY!

44. STOP BRINGING PEOPLE TO YOUR HOME WITHOUT SEEKING YOUR HUSBAND'S CONSENT!

45. STOP BEING THE WEAPON FASHIONED AGAINST YOUR HUSBAND!

46. STOP PUSHING YOUR HUSBAND TO THE EXTREME! HE SHOULDN'T COMMIT CRIMES JUST TO SATISFY YOUR FINANCIAL DEMANDS.

47. STOP DIVULGING INFORMATION OR SECRETS HE TOLD YOU IN CONFIDENCE TO OTHERS!

48. STOP IGNORING YOUR HUSBAND'S LOVE LANGUAGE!

49. STOP MAKING YOUR HUSBAND TO FEEL LESS THAN A MAN!

50. STOP HATING ON YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW WITHOUT A CAUSE!

This post is to help women become better wives to their husbands, and not to tr'ash them at all. 

Having a Godly and Healthy Marriage is possible. 

May God give us Christian Homes, Amen!