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FIFTEEN WRONG MINDSET ABOUT RELATIONSHIP

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FIFTEEN WRONG MINDSET ABOUT RELATIONSHIP !  It's so true that many are victims of wrong mindset. Many already have some fallacious believe due to their experience or the environment they grew up about relationship and marriage. Wrong mindset will lead to wrong marriage.  1.  Abusive relationship is inevitable! Some already believe you cannot be in a relationship without the man beating the lady or the lady verbally abusing the man due to their past experience with their parents or people. This is not biblical and godly in any form. Abuse is not love. Abuse is not spirituality. I have seen several marriages of more than 20 years that's not abusive.  2. You must have multiple relationship before you settle down.  We have seen thousands who never went into two relationships before getting married. Jumping from one relationship to another is not spirituality or virtue. Experiencing multiple and frequent heartbreak is not fruit of the spirit.  3. All men are evil maybe because her e

The picture below was taken four weeks into the Biafran/ Nigerian Civil war.

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The picture below was taken four weeks into the Biafran/ Nigerian Civil war. Below is the photograph of Ugulu and Chimaobi - both 14 years of age, who coincidentally became orphans on the same day. The very day a Russian MiG - 17 aircraft piloted by the Nigerian Military had dropped missiles on commercial buildings which was heavily populated by Biafran Civilians in Nnewi, Anambra state. An attack considered as offensive till date. Ugulu and Chimaobi were not home at the time of the explosion. They had both gone for a swim in the Urasi  river when the heard the sound of the explosion which flogged down many palm trees and buildings. The attack was routed across regions covering Uli, Ihiala and Oguta.

𝐂𝐡𝐢𝐞𝐟 𝐃𝐚𝐧 𝐆𝐞𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞

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𝐂𝐡𝐢𝐞𝐟 𝐃𝐚𝐧 𝐆𝐞𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞 Chief Dan George was actually a chief of the Tsleil-Waututh Nation in British Columbia, Canada from 1951 to 1963. Also an author and poet, George achieved his first acting job at the age of 60, appearing in the Canadian TV show, Caribou Country. But George’s acting career didn’t peak until 1970 when he starred in Little Big Man, a role for which he received an Oscar nomination for Best Supporting Actor. Another great role for George was the part of Lone Watie in The Outlaw Josie Wales (1976), often considered one of the best American Westerns. And George’s performance in this American classic could be considered Oscar-worthy as well. George also appeared on TV shows such as Kung Fu. During George’s writing career, he was credited with fostering understanding between non-native and Native Americans, particularly with the release of his book, My Heart Soars

Dear Lady

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Dear Lady WHY YOU KEEP DATING/ATTRACTING THE WRONG GUYS.  Do you find yourself alway dating bad (abusive, unfaithful) guys? Or always attracting bad guys?  Here are some reasons Why... 1) YOU HAVE NO BOUNDARIES/STANDARDS  Boundaries/Standards are important, they define who you are (IDENTITY), what you will accept or not accept, they also serve as a PROTECTION.. Having no boundaries/standards means ANY thing or ANY man goes, as far as it is Man,  character or no character, mature or not, you meet a guy TODAY and TOMORROW you are dating him, next TOMORROW you are sleeping over at his place and supplying him sex like food. Can't you see you have no boundaries and standards like that? 2) YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT IS EXACTLY YOU WANT OR NEED. Knowing the type of guy YOU DON'T WANT is the first step in knowing and getting the type of guy YOU WANT.  Without clarity as to what you want, and what you don't want, chances are very high of you accepting the very guys you should turn d

FACTS ABOUT WOMEN..

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FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.. A WOMAN will BLOCK you, DELETE your NUMBER and tell you never to CALL her again and still expect you to CALL her. It's only WOMEN that can explain it better.. In the midst of an ARGUMENT with her, don't bother exchanging WORDS with her because it's not her that's SPEAKING, instead LISTEN to her, and let her continue VOMITING. And when she's COOL, EMBRACE her and let her know how much you LOVE her. LISTEN BRO, a WOMAN that truly loves you doesn't behave NORMAL, at times she behaves like an EVIL though in a GOOD WAY, she will BLOCK you on WHATSAPP, FACEBOOK and still use her FRIEND'S FACEBOOK ACCOUNT to see how you are HOLDING UP. They may BREATHE FIRE and BRIMSTONE in front of you and breakdown in TEARS in a CORNER. Their HEARTS are SOFTER than a NEW BORN BABY'S FEET honestly. Until you realize and understand that most WOMEN SPEAK in OPPOSITE MEANINGS whenever they are MAD and ANGRY at you, then you will forever fall in same trap of co

18 COSTLY MISTAKES THAT WIVES MAKE

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18 COSTLY MISTAKES THAT WIVES MAKE 1. PROLONGING SILENT TREATMENT WHEN OFFENDED TO SHOW YOU ARE ANGRY This makes you and your husband used to not talking and makes you two draw further apart doing major damage to your communication. Even when he does wrong, get angry, but get to talk about it and forgive quickly 2. KILLING YOUR SOCIAL LIFE IN THE NAME OF BEING A GOOD WIFE  Don't isolate yourself. Have mature friends to surround you, to grow with you as a wife. This makes your life richer, widens your worldview, challenges you and makes you less demanding on your husband's time. Again, make sure the lady friends you keep are of good character. You need fellow women who will stand with you, iron sharpens iron 3. OVER REACTING OR GETTING EASILY ANGRY  When your husband reveals to you information and you over react or you become highly suspicious or critical of him, that will discourage him from sharing matters with you in future and he will begin to be secretive, not because he wa

HOW TO FORGIVE YOUR SPOUSE

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HOW TO FORGIVE YOUR SPOUSE The person who can hurt you easily and deeply, willingly or unwillingly, is your spouse because he/she is so close to you and knows so much about you. So how do you forgive? 1. COMMUNICATE YOUR HURT Your spouse might not be aware that you have been offended. Stop keeping this to yourself growing resentment, assuming your spouse will know as if your spouse reads your mind. Let your spouse know "Darling, you hurt me". What might be an issue to you, might not be an issue to your spouse  2. DON'T ALWAYS EXPECT AN APOLOGY An apology is not what determines forgiveness. It is wonderful for your spouse to apologize but not everytime your spouse will apologize. Your spouse might fail to apologize because he/she doesn't see why you are hurt, he/she is proud, you two have not come to an agreement or you are partly to blame for what you are accusing your spouse of. You have to resolve in your heart, "I will not put my life on hold, waiting for an a

Lies That Makes Ladies Fall Into Premarital Sex .

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Lies That Makes Ladies Fall Into Premarital Sex . Yesterday, ladies who were naive or easy to be influenced had fallen into the deception of cunning men whose aim is to have premarital sex with them. Today, some of them don't learn from the mistake some made in the past and are still victims of premarital sex. Tomorrow, more ladies would be victims of premarital sex at their tender age because of the lies that was sold to them from the devil through subtle men. . Truth doesn't make you fall, it keeps you standing provided you're firmly rooted in it but lies will make you fall and you may not be able to recover from the consequences of the fall. . The best way to escape lies is to know the truth and discard the lies immediately you discover that it doesn't correlate with the truth. A second thought on lies will convince you into the act just as it did to Eve. . And mind you, lies can be sponsored by men or women and their sole intention is to deceive you if you're ig

In the heart of the vast plains, where the grass danced to the rhythm of the wind and the sky stretched out in endless expanse,

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In the heart of the vast plains, where the grass danced to the rhythm of the wind and the sky stretched out in endless expanse, there lived a tribe of warriors known as the Red-Road Warriors. They were keepers of ancient wisdom, guardians of peace, and seekers of truth. Among them was a young warrior named Red Hawk, whose spirit burned bright with the fire of curiosity and the desire for understanding. From a young age, he had been taught the importance of listening, of hearing all sides before passing judgment. One day, as Red Hawk stood atop a hill overlooking the village, he heard the distant rumble of thunder. Curious, he set out to investigate, following the sound until he came upon a gathering of elders from neighboring tribes. As he approached, Red Hawk listened intently to the words being spoken, his heart open to the wisdom of those who had come before. He heard tales of hardship and triumph, of loss and redemption, each story adding another layer to his understanding of the

FIRST TIME VISITING YOUR INLAWS?

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FIRST TIME VISITING YOUR INLAWS?  1) Research about Them. Know what to expect, Ask your partner about their culture, how they greet over there, don't go and say "Hi, good Afternoon Everybody" when they expect you to probably kneel to greet.  You could learn how to greet in their language too (if you are from a different tribe), your in-laws will be happy to know you are trying to learn their ways.  Reseach about the people you'll be meeting, so you don't say things that may embarrass or offend anyone, like if her elder brother lost his wife, don't go and ask him "how's your wife", that you weren't aware will not be an excuse, they may instantly dislike you.   Don't go to your in-laws place for the first time unprepared. First Impression goes a Long way.  2) Dress Well As a Lady, don't dress like you want to seduce all the Men in his family, even if short skirts is your trade, try and dress well that day, Dress decently, don't be g

What are we seeing:

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What are we seeing: A person trying to save his father, and completely ignoring his wife and son, who are closest to him. And the lightest weight among them is that he saves you. Character representation: - THE MOTHER: represents LIFE; - The child: represents the FUTURE; - THE FATHER: represents the PAST. Interpretation of the Work: man has clung to the past and, therefore, loses his LIFE, and his FUTURE. As "HAVELOCK" said: The art of living involves knowing when to hold on and when to let go.

HOW CAN I KNOW MY FIANCE'S PENIS IS WORKING?

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HOW CAN I KNOW MY FIANCE'S PENIS IS WORKING? I always, unapologetically teach that sex is strictly for the married! Singles have no single business with sex! You don't need to have sex with ten guys in the name of looking for your perfect penis size and the man most compatible with you in bed! Virginity is the dignity of womanhood! Keep it at all cost! But how in the name of God do you know your partner isn't impotent and his penis is working if you don't try him out? In the name of Jesus I beg all single ladies here, take your fiance to a male doctor and let him have his penis examined before going to the altar -I am not joking! We have heard cases of guys acting all loving in courtship then fail to penetrate on the wedding night and beyond! It's crazy for a wife to still be a virgin months and years after marriage! A Pastor shared the story of a woman who had been married for 8 years with no sex! Eight whooping years! That man is wicked! He is evil! Don't go a

Lady Sparks Social Media Buzz With Erotic Gym Workout Video With Male Instructor

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A video of a lady’s gym workout with a male instructor has ignited widespread discussion and attention on social media platforms. Published 2 days ago on April 27, 2024  Lady Sparks Social Media Buzz With Erotic Gym Workout Video With Male Instructor A video of a ladys gym workout with a male instructor has ignited widespread discussion and attention on social media platforms. The footage, deemed provocative by many, has sparked controversy and garnered significant engagement and reactions from online users. In today’s digital age, social media has become the ultimate platform for sharing our lives, experiences, and adventures. But what happens when a seemingly innocent gym workout video turns into a viral sensation overnight? Well, that’s exactly what happened when a young lady shared a video of her intense workout session with a male instructor, sparking a heated debate across various online platforms. VerseNews understands that the video, which quickly garnered thousands of views an

SOME WARNING SIGNALS YOU MUST PAY ATTENTION TO IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP!

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SOME WARNING SIGNALS YOU MUST PAY ATTENTION TO IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP! ANGER: If he/she easily gets angry when you have a little misunderstanding, he/she doesn't tolerate jokes, be conscious before you committed to him/her. THREATENING YOU: If he/she threatening to leave you when you have a little argument, he/she will threatening and may leave you in marriage, be wise. BEATING YOU: If he beat you up every time, if he slaps you during an argument, he will do the worst in marriage. Be wise.  LACK OF COMMUNICATION:  If you are the only one that does all the calling, caring, messaging, texting... It depicts that you are forcing yourself on him/her. A man/woman that truly loves you will show it through his/her actions, he/she will not make excuses, they will find time to connect with you no matter how busy their schedule is. He/she will see you as their priority...Be sensitive. WOMANIZER: If he womanizes, if you always see him with different girls, if he cheats on you on countless occasi

THE IMPORTANCE OF S*X IN YOUR MARRIAGE

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THE IMPORTANCE OF S*X IN YOUR MARRIAGE  1. S*x is God's gift for the both of you in your marriage. You two would be going against God's desire, not to do it 2. S*x relieves stress and taking away tension. Yes, it has a way of making you two relax even in the midst of tough times  3. S*x makes you two create exclusive memories that makes you two bond deeply  4. Sex is a celebration of your love. It's like a "Thanksgiving party" on the sheets where only two are invited 5. Sex affirms you two of your love. It reminds you two that you are a couple, that is why married people panic when the frequency dwindles. Some wives even remember the exact day the husband last touched them and wonder what happened  6. Sex helps you two be vulnerable. As you two strip down to physical nakedness, it will help you two to be emotionally naked with each other  7. Sex is good for your physical health. As a physical activity, sex is a good work out, helps your body organs and blood circu

HONEY, LET'S NOT HAVE S*X

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HONEY, LET'S NOT HAVE S*X HE: Darling, let's have sex. I am horny SHE: No hun  HE: No? SHE: No, let's make love HE: What's the difference? SHE: People have sex simply because they are horny, we make love because of intimacy. Sex can easily be done by anyone, making love is with someone you love HE: I love you SHE: I love you too. Making something means we're putting thought and heart to it, not just chasing after an orgasm. Love making is not about who is horny and needs an orgasm but the both of us. Love making is kissing, love making is speaking love to each other, love making is pursuing me, knowing me. Love making is opening up to you a world that you view as sacred, not just giving you a wet vagina. Love making is touching each other with affection. Love making is looking to each other's eyes and seeing faithfulness, depth, honesty, vulnerability. Do you know many wives wish their husbands would make love to them as opposed to having sex? HE: I am guessing

IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE S*X..

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* IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE S* X..  Have you noticed that there are times 2 people will be in a good relationship and the very moment they have sex, boom they begin to lose interest in each other.. Like, after that sex, the relationship begins grow cold.. Have you seen such a thing before???  And again, on the other hand, have you also noticed that there are other people who has been dating, but immediately they have sex, the love between them becomes much more stronger... Have you wondered why it is so? Why is it that the same sex that killed the first relationship makes the other relationship stronger? Why!!  Okay. Now relax, let's find out...   Remember I once told you that LOVE has 3 ascending stages or levels. When a guy sees a beautiful lady on the road and whistles at her to woo her, that mere physical attraction the guy saw in the lady that pushed him to make a move to approach her,  is the PRIMARY stage or first level of love. This primary stage involves infatuations, fantasie

HOW TO SURVIVE IN A LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

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HOW TO SURVIVE IN A LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE The word survive is used because everyone's desire is to live within reach of their partner. But sometimes life gives you a good partner yet circumstance separates you physically. How do you cope? 1. TRUST EACH OTHER  Trust is the reason that will keep the fire burning. Trust is not just blindly given, show you are trustworthy by being open, having a record of dependability and honesty, keep your partner on the know, share details. Do things that make you your partner secure. Let your partner know of your schedules over there. Be predictable 2. DATE ALOT ON THE PHONE OR ONLINE  Unlike other more fortunate partners who get to meet each other so often to go on dates; make up for the lack or minimal frequency of physical connection by chatting and opening up with each other on the phone. This way, your fantasies and desire will remain directed towards your partner even though far apart. Let your cheeky and talkative ways come ali

𝟓𝟎 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆𝐒 𝐀 𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐃 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐋𝐃 𝐍𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑 𝐃𝐎.

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𝟓𝟎 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆𝐒 𝐀 𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐃 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐋𝐃 𝐍𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑 𝐃𝐎. Without mincing words, marriage takes its toll on women more than men. Women are usually the ones more readily available to look after the running of the home, more than the husbands, who are usually on the field trying to fend for the family.  However, some ungodly trends have crept into marriages and we must nip them in the bud before they crumble this beautiful institution.  Below are things that married women must desist from if they want to have Godly and Healthy Marriages.  1. STOP DISRESPECTING YOUR HUSBAND! HE IS YOUR EARTHLY GOD! 2. STOP COMPARING YOUR HUSBAND WITH OTHER MEN OUT THERE! YOUR HUSBAND IS UNIQUE. 3. STOP ALLOWING CHORES TO HINDER YOUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD! 4. STOP NEGLECTING THE NEED TO HAVE OPEN AND HONEST COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR HUSBAND! 5. STOP ALLOWING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR HUSBAND TO SUFFER! 6. STOP CURSING YOUR HUSBAND! 7. STOP CHEATING ON YOUR HUSBANDS! YOU'RE N

EVERY MAN AND WOMAN MUST READ THIS....

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EVERY MAN AND WOMAN MUST READ THIS.... 1) Never raise your voice for any reason. It's a sign of disrespect. 2). Don't expose the weaknesses of your wife or husband to your family and friends. They will bounce back at you. You are each others keeper. 3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate with your spouse (or), you never know how He or She will interpret it. Defensive couples don't have a happy home. 4). Never compare your husband to other men or your wife to other women, you have no idea what their life is like. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish. 5). Never mistreat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who is supposed to get rid of them is your partner. 6). Never forget that your wife (or your husband) married you, not someone else. Complete your duties. 7). Never appoint anyone to take care of your husband,Or wife. people can do everything else but your partner is your own responsibility. Never blame your husba

21 SIGNS THAT SHOW THEY DON'T LOVE YOU AT ALL...

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21 SIGNS THAT SHOW THEY DON'T LOVE YOU AT ALL... For all the single men and ladies: Over the years I have been telling lovers that a healthy relationship is one where the two partners involved demonstrate their love to each other through a strong commitment. Therefore, a one-sided love is not part of the deal. Today I write to expose you to 21 signs that show that they don't love you at all: 1. They are not committed to you in any way. 2. They are still double-dating. 3. They don't appreciate your show of care. 4. They don't appreciate your company and friendship. 5. They are irritated by your presence. 6. They don't call to ask about your wellbeing even though they've not seen you or heard from you for a long time without giving you any cogent reason. 7. They are shy and ashamed to introduce you to their parents, siblings and friends. 8. They don't discuss a marital future of the two of you with you. 9. They only see you as a sex object and nothing more. 10

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